Katarina & Gerald

April 12, 2025 • Moorpark, CA
29 Days To Go!

Katarina & Gerald

April 12, 2025 • Moorpark, CA
29 Days To Go!

Our Story

Our Happily Ever After

Jerry's Account:


Katarina had just arrived.


Shortly before midnight, the passenger plane touched down on this breezy Vienna night.


A blanket of woolish clouds covered the Central European capital and the scent of summer hung in the air. She stepped off the plane and gradually made her way to her temporary home before gently falling asleep.


Awaking to the following morning, Katarina attended CityKirche, a local church lead by longtime family friends, Christian and Helen Hofreiter. After service, Viji from Hawaii struck up a conversation with Katarina and given the topics at play, calls Jerry on over to join.


The first meeting of Katarina and Jerry in the back of Café Caspar, a downtown Vienna café that hosts CityKirche in the summer month of July, was already charged with magic.


Conversation was easy and proceeded at a fast clip. Continental philosophers such as Schopenhauer, Nietzsche or the Vienna-born Martin Buber were mentioned and some of their thought sketched out and interpreted in light of biblical teaching.


Interaction was, in fact, so thoroughly delightful that Jerry exchanged contact information with Katarina and offered her a tour of the Old City—an offer she readily took up the following Saturday.


The days between church and the city tour included some messaging and mentions of common interests such as IWM, a local think tank, and poetry of the great George Herbert, Gerard Manley Hopkins, or the Nobel prize laureate Seamus Heaney.


Saturday morning, Jerry and Katarina finally met for their joint tour at the downtown landmark Stephan’s Cathedral.

Katarina was arrayed in her usual joyful way and Jerry was thrilled to show her around.


After a cheerful greeting, they made a full circle around the cathedral, taking in its many artfully designed depictions of the biblical text published on the outside of its thick sandstone walls while relishing in vibrant conversation.


Following the tiny Jasomirgottstraße to Peterskirche and around to the Wollzeile they turned onto the Ring, passing imposing statues of greats such as Schubert, Lehár or Göthe.


After a visit to the palace library, Katarina mentioned that she would enjoy a nibble at one of the street food offers nearby. Jerry, having successively realized his good fortune, decided to make it a special event, and suggested a prize-winning Italian diner, Trattoria Martinelli, minutes away.


Delicious cuisine in a quiet, freshly gardened courtyard setting provided just the right environment for Katarina and Jerry to continue getting to know each other and moment by moment increasingly fall in love.


From that day on, not a day went by when they didn’t spend time together. Despite Katarina’s work schedule, which had to take the 7-hour time difference into account, time was found, and conversation continued into the wee hours of the night.


Only a few days later, surrounded by tall five-century-old horse chestnut trees, the conversation halted as they turned to each other and, for the first time, kissed.


The unavoidable day of departure arrived as Katarina’s four-week-long remote work time window drew to a close. Teary-eyed kisses and embraces at Vienna airport accompanied the send-off. The only ray of light, piercing the momentary sadness, was Jerry’s scheduled visit to Texas.


A few weeks later the long-sought reunion took place in Dallas, and Jerry had the opportunity to meet Katarina’s beautiful family, go jogging with her along Trinity River, and visit many places of special significance. The joint flight back to Austria via Paris gave them some more weeks together and with Jerry’s mom before, due to visa limitations, Katarina had to leave the country again.


After weekend reunions in the capital cities of Ireland and Scotland, Turkey was next in line.


A dinner at Istanbul’s lavish Çırağan Palace overlooking the Bosphorus River provided just the right backdrop for Jerry to invite Katarina out onto the opulent moonlight terrace, go down on his knee, and pop the question to which Katarina responded with the delightful words, “Yes, a thousand times, yes!”

Vienna, Austria: This is the only picture taken on the day that Jerry showed Katarina around Vienna, which was when they began to fall in love--and never stopped! However, it is fitting that the only picture from that day was of the lemon tarte during the meal where they were falling for each other!

July 13, 2024

Vienna, Austria: This is the only picture taken on the day that Jerry showed Katarina around Vienna, which was when they began to fall in love--and never stopped! However, it is fitting that the only picture from that day was of the lemon tarte during the meal where they were falling for each other!
Schneeberg, Austria: Jerry and Katarina saw each other every day for the rest of what was supposed to be Katarina's month of remote work in Austria. During that time, they went on dates, like the hiking adventure pictured here in the Austrian Alps. It didn't take long for Katarina to realize that her time in Austria would last longer than a month.

July 20, 2024

Schneeberg, Austria: Jerry and Katarina saw each other every day for the rest of what was supposed to be Katarina's month of remote work in Austria. During that time, they went on dates, like the hiking adventure pictured here in the Austrian Alps. It didn't take long for Katarina to realize that her time in Austria would last longer than a month.
Fort Worth, Texas: Katarina flew back to Texas at the end of July to pack up her things in Texas and move to Austria. Jerry helped her empty out her Fort Worth apartment and flew with her back to Vienna.

August 30, 2024

Fort Worth, Texas: Katarina flew back to Texas at the end of July to pack up her things in Texas and move to Austria. Jerry helped her empty out her Fort Worth apartment and flew with her back to Vienna.
Vienna, Austria: Katarina arrived back in Vienna to begin building her life there.

September 03, 2024

Vienna, Austria: Katarina arrived back in Vienna to begin building her life there.
Venice, Italy: The couple celebrated Katarina's move to the other side of the Atlantic with a quick trip to Venice.

September 06, 2024

Venice, Italy: The couple celebrated Katarina's move to the other side of the Atlantic with a quick trip to Venice.
Belvedere, Vienna: Jerry and Katarina had many adventures in Vienna while trying to secure Katarina's visa

October 05, 2024

Belvedere, Vienna: Jerry and Katarina had many adventures in Vienna while trying to secure Katarina's visa
Like going to the Vienna Opera House with Katarina's dad during a visit.

October 26, 2024

Like going to the Vienna Opera House with Katarina's dad during a visit.
Carrickfergus, Northern Ireland: Unfortunately, Katarina couldn't secure a visa during her visa-free allowance in Austria, so she had to enter into "Schengen exile" for 90 days away from Jerry. 

Thankfully, Sam and Petra Adams from Citykirche generously offered Katarina their flat in Carrickfergus, Northern Ireland, which is out of the Schengen zone, so the couple could visit each other in non-Schengen countries on the weekends.

November 02, 2024

Carrickfergus, Northern Ireland: Unfortunately, Katarina couldn't secure a visa during her visa-free allowance in Austria, so she had to enter into "Schengen exile" for 90 days away from Jerry. Thankfully, Sam and Petra Adams from Citykirche generously offered Katarina their flat in Carrickfergus, Northern Ireland, which is out of the Schengen zone, so the couple could visit each other in non-Schengen countries on the weekends.
Belfast, Northern Ireland: During the first month of Katarina's Schengen exile, she worked remotely out of Belfast, a short train ride away from Carrickfergus.

November 03, 2024

Belfast, Northern Ireland: During the first month of Katarina's Schengen exile, she worked remotely out of Belfast, a short train ride away from Carrickfergus.
Edinburgh, Scotland: Katarina and Jerry meet up in beautiful Edinburgh on their first excursion during Katarina's Schengen exile.

November 08, 2024

Edinburgh, Scotland: Katarina and Jerry meet up in beautiful Edinburgh on their first excursion during Katarina's Schengen exile.
Edinburgh, Scotland: Katarina and Jerry always find their way to a bookstore. This one was one of Katarina's favorites from when she used to study in Scotland, Toppings & Co.

November 09, 2024

Edinburgh, Scotland: Katarina and Jerry always find their way to a bookstore. This one was one of Katarina's favorites from when she used to study in Scotland, Toppings & Co.
Dublin, Ireland: The second excursion during the Schengen exile took Jerry and Katarina to the capital of the Emerald Isle.

November 15, 2024

Dublin, Ireland: The second excursion during the Schengen exile took Jerry and Katarina to the capital of the Emerald Isle.
Temple Bar, Dublin: Jerry and Katarina made new friends at Irish pubs...

November 16, 2024

Temple Bar, Dublin: Jerry and Katarina made new friends at Irish pubs...
Trinity College, Dublin: ...and of course, the book lovers had to visit the iconic Trinity College library.

November 17, 2024

Trinity College, Dublin: ...and of course, the book lovers had to visit the iconic Trinity College library.
Çırağan Palace, Istanbul: Katarina and Jerry's third Schengen exile excursion was a meet-up in Istanbul, where Jerry treated Katarina to a meal at the Ottoman-era Çırağan Palace.

November 29, 2024

Çırağan Palace, Istanbul: Katarina and Jerry's third Schengen exile excursion was a meet-up in Istanbul, where Jerry treated Katarina to a meal at the Ottoman-era Çırağan Palace.
And it was here, on the Bosphorous bridging two continents, that Jerry asked Katarina to continue bridging worlds and people together...forever and always.

November 29, 2024

And it was here, on the Bosphorous bridging two continents, that Jerry asked Katarina to continue bridging worlds and people together...forever and always.
To which Katarina answered, in the fashion of Jane Bennet, "Yes! A thousand times, yes!"

November 29, 2024

To which Katarina answered, in the fashion of Jane Bennet, "Yes! A thousand times, yes!"
Katarina and Jerry spent their second month of Schengen exile apart, with Katarina in the U.S. and Jerry in Austria, wedding planning over numerous Facetime dates.

December 01, 2024

Katarina and Jerry spent their second month of Schengen exile apart, with Katarina in the U.S. and Jerry in Austria, wedding planning over numerous Facetime dates.
Sarajevo, Bosnia: Finally, the couple was reunited in Sarajevo, where Katarina was generously offered to stay with CityKirche friends, Christopher and Birgit Sheldon during her third and final month of Schengen exile.

January 02, 2025

Sarajevo, Bosnia: Finally, the couple was reunited in Sarajevo, where Katarina was generously offered to stay with CityKirche friends, Christopher and Birgit Sheldon during her third and final month of Schengen exile.
Katarina is in Sarajevo until her Schengen exile finally ends on February 1st, when she will be reunited with Jerry in Vienna. The couple will remain there eagerly awaiting and planning for their wedding day, April 12th!

February 01, 2025

Katarina is in Sarajevo until her Schengen exile finally ends on February 1st, when she will be reunited with Jerry in Vienna. The couple will remain there eagerly awaiting and planning for their wedding day, April 12th!
Cheers to April 12th and Happily Ever After!

April 12, 2025

Cheers to April 12th and Happily Ever After!